Today is a Good Day

Facing a NICU experience is the saddest and hardest thing I’ve ever dealt with. I was first introduced to Today Is A Good Day (TIAGD) when I received one of their care packages while my baby was in the NICU. The package felt like a warm hug from strangers who seemed to truly understand exactly what I needed in that moment; a time when celebratory flowers or balloons didn’t feel right. From that point on, I felt drawn to the organization, as many of the volunteers do. Since then, I have not only benefitted from their offerings but have volunteered, too. There’s never any pressure to show up; I’ve always felt free to take what I need and give what I can, and in return, I’ve experienced a constant sense of understanding, compassion, and empathy. When you get involved with TIAGD, no matter how—whether as a participant, volunteer, or both—you quickly realize that you don’t have to go through this journey alone. Meeting the founder, Martha Sharkey, and hearing about her own experiences made it clear how deeply personal and heartfelt this mission is, and how essential TIAGD is to our community as a whole. TIAGD provides invaluable resources and a wealth of knowledge, supporting you every step of the way down this well-trodden path. And they do it all with care. I once attended their Navigate the NICU session, led by Missy Lusk, and saw firsthand just how resourceful and skillful Missy is in her role. I also witnessed how incredibly supportive TIAGD is as an organization. The needs of the mom sitting next to me were very different from my own, but despite our differences, we found common ground through our shared hearts, fears, and hopes. That day was deeply impactful for me. TIAGD has provided much-needed respite to families in various ways. I’ve seen them donate clothes, baby items, and even a crib. Beyond the formal community resources they connect you to, and the organized group gatherings they host, TIAGD also offers a warm and welcoming group of families who share in this experience and the heartfelt mission. Personally, TIAGD helped me understand everything my husband and I, and our baby, were going through. They helped me distinguish between what was typical and what was unique, and helped me understand what to expect in the upcoming weeks, months, and years. Along the way, I’ve built sweet friendships and a strong support network of other families who truly “”get it”” because they’ve all been there, too. Most importantly, TIAGD provides hope at the most critical time. I see them as an extension of care that goes well beyond the hospital setting—offering comfort, support, and a sense of community when it’s needed most.